Dysonnance is a smart lady, so sure, I'd quote her.

And no, I'm not saying anyone who says they are different from someone else is an oppressor. I'm saying that, currently, the language used to define all of us, you, crossdressers, gender deconstructors, etc is determined by society at large.

You know, the group of people who sees us all conceptually (including you) as freaks? Yeah them. They're the oppressors.